Follow THIS link below and skim the angry article that follows. I found this scary warning while looking for funny "cheating" photos for the previous post. Holy crap! I half expect her to say you you boil a rabbit on your stove so your husband will really know he was wrong.
Stay away from men who are trying to console you. Men have a strange sense of women who are in desperation. They know. Avoid them. Don't befriend them. They have other plans in mind for you than just talking about your problems. Trust me. You know this in your gut, don't ignore it.